Scrupulosity OCD: Is ERP Compatible With Your Faith?
TL; DR
Scrupulosity OCD can complicate one's relationship with faith, leading to fears about mental health treatment like exposure and response prevention (ERP). However, ERP can actually enhance your spiritual practice by helping you confront uncertainties without compromising your beliefs. It’s designed to untangle compulsions from genuine faith, allowing for a more authentic engagement with spirituality. Involving a religious leader can be beneficial, but seeking approval for each exposure may reinforce compulsive behaviors. Ultimately, OCD treatment with ERP can harmonize mental health and faith, guiding you toward a more joyful and meaningful religious experience.
What Types of Fears Can Scrupulosity OCD Cause?
For people of faith who have religious scrupulosity, the concept of going to a mental health clinician can be daunting. When your fears center on God, sin, morality, or eternal consequences, the idea of doing exposure and response prevention (ERP) may feel like a terrible idea! You might worry: Will they challenge my beliefs? Will exposure therapy ask me to disrespect my religion or break religious law? Will I lose my faith if I stop performing compulsions?
These fears make sense and are why therapists are trained on cultural competence and respecting their clients’ religious beliefs. Scrupulosity is a form of OCD that hijacks religious practice, turning rituals meant to bring peace and connection into compulsions driven by fear and the need for certainty. When done right, ERP is not a departure from faith, but a return to authentic, meaningful engagement with your beliefs.
Exposure Therapy as an Act of Faith
If humans could have absolute certainty about religion / God/ anything, then we wouldn’t need faith. Faith is not necessarily the absence of doubt; it is a choice and a conviction to move forward in the face of uncertainties. As founder of Leap Counseling, I am not a religious leader, so don’t take my word for it. Take theirs:
“Faith is not certainty. It is the courage to live with uncertainty.” -Rabbi Jonathan Sacks
“Faith is taking the first step even when you don't see the whole staircase.” - Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.
“To one who has faith, no explanation is necessary. To one without faith, no explanation is possible.” - St. Thomas Aquinas
“In Buddhism, faith means confidence in the path, not belief without doubt.” - Thich Nhat Hanh
For many people, ERP can be seen as an act of faith, a spiritual practice. Each exposure is a leap of faith, a way to embrace uncertainty and move forward without knowing the outcome. People with scrupulosity do not have a lack of faith - their doubt is related to a real mental disorder. They can use that faith to propel them forward, taking each exposure as an opportunity to put their faith in their beliefs, in themselves, and their God. OCD is the antithesis of faith - it wants you to give up on faith and find certainty. But every person has a choice, and through ERP, folks can learn to put their faith in faith.
Will ERP Go Against My Religion?
The goal in exposure therapy is not to lead you away from your faith, but rather to allow you to move back toward it. With scrupulosity, OCD corrupts behaviors that should be healthy expressions of faith into compulsions whose goal is to reduce fear. In this way, scrupulosity often prevents us from authentically engaging in religious practice. When you are performing religious behaviors in service of OCD, are you fully engaging with your faith in the way it was intended? Are you praying in order to strengthen your relationship with God, or does it seem more like you are putting prayer “tokens” into some machine and getting back reassurance?
Are you re-performing wudu because you ended up clearly passing gas before prayers and you want to be prepared for standing before Allah in prayer, or are you doing so out of fear of the faint possibility that you may have passed gas without you noticing? Are you asking your rabbi a question about the specifics of Jewish law because that fills your cup and you are genuinely curious, or are you doing so out of great fear of offending God, leading your religious observance to be one of great pain rather than joy?
In ERP, the goal of exposure work is to induce uncertainty.
We want to live in the grey area (because OCD lies when it tells you that the world is only black and white). It is not the goal of exposure therapy to ask someone to do something that is actually wrong or unacceptably dangerous. When treating harm OCD, I would not assign an “exposure” of stabbing someone! In the same way, I would not assign an exposure for someone who believes in keeping kosher to eat a bacon cheeseburger. That just does not make sense. OCD isn’t really about being afraid of breaking these religious rules as much as it is about being afraid of not knowing whether you are breaking a religious rule.
So, exposures involve inducing uncertainty. In harm OCD, an appropriate exposure might be to point a knife at a loved one who sits across from you. Thus, in religious scrupulosity OCD, an appropriate exposure might be to write the number “666” or to touch a crucifix after picking up dog poop (with a poop bag, of course). Some have described exposures as doing something on purpose that other people do by accident. Again, the goal is to be uncertain as to whether what you are doing is wrong.
Should I Ask My Religious Leader If Each Exposure is Okay to Do?
It can be a good idea to involve a religious leader or scholar in your treatment. However, it is not recommended to receive approval or permission from them for each exposure. If your OCD therapist is not familiar with your religion, then they may want to consult with your religious leader to ensure they are staying in that grey area and to know what would actually be against religious law. However, receiving permission for each exposure would be problematic. By receiving approval, a person with religious OCD would feel much less uncertain that what they are doing is wrong. This would act as a compulsion and minimize the effectiveness of the exposure.
How is ERP Consistent With Religious Teachings?
ERP is not in opposition to religious teachings; it is in concert with them. I have gathered some teachings or quotes from religious leaders in Christianity, Judaism, and Islam that are consistent with exposure therapy or speak directly to scrupulosity.
Christianity
Scrupulosity has been experienced by many saints and religious figures in history, and those who became familiar with scrupulosity often gave advice consistent with exposure therapy. Father William Doyle (1873-1917) recommended that those with scrupulosity ignore doubts, resist redoing confessions, lean into the grace of God, be lenient with one’s faults rather than exaggerating them, interpret advice in the broadest sense (e.g., not asking for reassurance with every slightly changing situation), and to resist excessive questioning-asking, especially to their pastor or priest.
Judaism
To combat perfectionism in religious practice, remember “The Torah was not given to Heavenly angels” (Berachos 25b). When you feel the urge to redo rituals or try to become 100% certain that you followed a rule perfectly, remind yourself that God does not expect perfection from you. Remember the concepts of bitul and rov. These remind you that there will always be times when we cannot know with certainty that something is kosher, and it is permissible nonetheless. Rabbis have shared that, instead of needing to be sure that something is kosher to eat it, you should instead be sure that something is not kosher in order to not eat it.
Rabbi Yaacov Yisrael Kanievski (1899–1985) wrote on scrupulosity, “There is no other advice than that he should teach himself to know and to believe with clarity that this is not the way of the holy Torah, whose “ways are pleasant ways” (Proverbs 3:17), and the Torah restores the soul of man and brings him pleasure and joy of the soul, as it says on joy in the Ways of the Righteous: Whoever carries out a commandment out of joy has one thousand times the reward of someone for whom the commandments are a burden.” He goes on to assert that the difference between increased religiousness and religious OCD is in whether it gives a person joy to carry out, or whether it brings distress.
Islam
Waswâs al-qahri has been recognized in Islam since its conception. One hadith related to Waswâs is commonly cited when discussing religious OCD: "Allah has forgiven my Ummah for the thoughts that come to their minds, unless they act upon them or utter them." This hadith is frequently elaborated on by imams when speaking on Waswâs. A frequent recommendation is to simply ignore the thoughts, recognize that the thoughts have no real meaning or power over you, and do nothing about them. These recommendations are consistent with exposure and response prevention, which involves exposure to situations in which these thoughts and concerns arise and intentionally doing nothing in response. This means resisting all compulsive behaviors to reduce one’s anxiety that arises as a result of these thoughts.
Faith and Therapy Can Work Together: Final Thoughts From an OCD Therapist
Scrupulosity can make it seem like you are choosing between your mental health and your faith. In reality, OCD treatment is not about choosing one over the other. It’s about disentangling your faith from OCD so that your religious life is guided by love, devotion, and meaning as opposed to fear. Instead of abandoning your faith, ERP can be a way to practice faith. To put your faith in faith. It teaches us how to take a leap into uncertainty, which is what faith is really about.
If you are considering treatment, seek a clinician who respects and understands your faith tradition, or who is willing to consult appropriately. Treatment works best when it honors both psychological science and spiritual conviction. Many people find that as their OCD symptoms decrease, their faith becomes calmer, deeper, and more joyful.
Additional Resources
See the links below for additional resources on scrupulosity OCD and religion:
International OD Center: Faith & OCD Resource Center
Stick With the Ick: Faith and OCD
Islam
Yaqeen Institute for Islamic Research: Clinicians, Imams, and the Whisperings of Satan
Mubeena Mirza, LCSW: Treatment Brings a Person Closer to Faith
Catholicism
Christianity
Justin K. Hughes: Scrupulosity is OCD; OCD is Treatable
Judaism
Rabbi Noah Tile: The Theological Side of OCD Treatment
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About the Author
Scrupulosity OCD is an area Dr. Johanna Wood knows both professionally and personally. As someone who has navigated intrusive thoughts and the anxiety spiral of relationship OCD herself, she understands the particular exhaustion of a mind that won't stop questioning, doubting, and demanding certainty. Her own ERP treatment is a lived experience she carries directly into her work with clients dealing with scrupulosity and other forms of OCD.
Dr. Wood is actively involved with the International OCD Foundation and has contributed to national education efforts specifically focused on scrupulosity OCD, making her one of the few therapists with both clinical and advocacy experience in this niche area. She earned her PhD in Clinical Psychology from Northern Illinois University, completed her doctoral internship at Rogers Behavioral Health in the OCD and Anxiety Adult Residential Program, and has supervised clinical staff in residential OCD treatment settings. A Wisconsin-based clinical psychologist licensed in Wisconsin and all PSYPACT states, Dr. Wood specializes in evidence-based OCD treatment and brings a rare blend of rigorous training, lived insight, and genuine respect for her clients' values to every aspect of her practice.
