Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD) Treatment
Online therapy for adults
in Wisconsin and 41 StatesOCD leaves you feeling like you need to be completely sure before you can move on. You may find yourself checking, seeking reassurance, avoiding things that make you anxious, or getting stuck trying to figure out what your thoughts mean.
The problem is that the more you try for certainty, the more OCD asks from you. Therapy can help you learn a different way to respond to OCD and start taking back your life.
Free yourself from OCD.
Take Your Life Back
From OCD
OCD is a bully. It makes threats and tells you that you'd better play by its rules, or else it will make your worst fears come true. Whether the fear is getting sick and dying, harming your loved ones, going to Hell, losing yourself, never feeling comfortable again, or something else, OCD says you must find a way to be certain the fear won’t come true.
So, you do what it says because it doesn’t feel like much of a choice. At first, it may not seem like much of a sacrifice. You repeat a couple of prayers to make sure you “get it right,” check the locks again before bed, or keep washing your hands.
When that isn’t enough, OCD tells you to up the ante. Now you’re asking for reassurance three times a day or washing your hands for 20 minutes instead of one minute. No matter how much you play by the rules, OCD will ALWAYS find a reason to scare you, or another compulsion you have to do to get OCD off your back. Before you realize it, OCD is running your life.
I am here to tell you: OCD is a liar. It makes compulsions seem like magic, as if doing them exactly right will keep the fear from coming true. It convinces you that it has the ultimate power over the universe, or at least that it might. OCD says that certainty is possible, and that you MUST have it.
We can never be fully certain about anything that OCD demands, and this is OCD’s most central lie. All of OCD’s threats hinge on it. It takes a huge leap of faith to call OCD’s bluff, but when you do, you will become more empowered.
You have more courage than you know, and it is possible to take your life back.
How Can OCD Therapy Help?
OCD is a painful disorder, and it can be difficult to find the right help. There is an effective, evidence-based treatment for OCD that can help people take back their lives from OCD: Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP). ERP is considered the gold standard psychotherapy for OCD, according to the International OCD Foundation (IOCDF) and the American Psychological Association (APA). At Leap Counseling, I use ERP as my main treatment method for OCD.
ERP disrupts the OCD cycle by intentionally exposing yourself to OCD triggers and preventing yourself from engaging in any compulsions or avoidance. Instead, allowing yourself to fully experience the uncomfortable feelings from the trigger. This builds tolerance to those uncomfortable emotions and teaches our brains and our bodies that we can handle it. Over time, as we learn to approach uncertainty and anxiety rather than avoid, the anxiety and discomfort tend to decrease.
The Leap Counseling Approach to OCD Treatment
At Leap Counseling, I use ERP as my main treatment method for OCD. I also incorporate aspects of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), which is considered an empirically-supported adjunctive treatment, or a treatment that can be added to improve ERP outcomes. ACT involves elements of mindfulness, acceptance of difficult thoughts and emotions, and a focus on identifying and behaving in line with our values.
It’s important to receive treatment from a clinician with specialized training in OCD. Dr. Wood is an OCD and anxiety specialist who has treated and supervised hundreds of OCD cases over several different settings. You can be confident you have a clinician who knows what they’re talking about and who cares about using treatments that have been shown to work.
Uncertainty is not a threat; it's a leap of faith.OCD convinces us that uncertainty is the ultimate enemy. But learning to accept uncertainty, to welcome it, can be beautiful!
Through ERP, you can change the way you think about uncertainty. You can become empowered to act even with intrusive thoughts or doubt. Instead of being trapped by doubt and fear, you can learn to have faith that you can handle what life throws at you.
Want to Learn More About OCD?
OCD can be complex, and difficult to work through alone. To get started, here are some commonly asked questions about OCD to take the guesswork out of OCD.
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Below are 5 signs someone might be experiencing OCD.
Unwanted thoughts or images that keep popping up in your mind and won’t go away. They’re often disturbing and cause intense anxiety, guilt, disgust, or discomfort.
Behaviors (both mental and physical) that are done in response to intrusive thoughts. The goal of the behaviors is to decrease anxiety or discomfort stemming from the thoughts or to prevent a feared outcome from happening. Even when the actions don't really make sense, they can feel hard to resist because of the lingering thought, "But what if it's true?"
Excessive need for certainty or reassurance. There’s a powerful urge to be 100% sure, without a shadow of a sliver of doubt, that the feared outcome won't happen.
Trying to push thoughts away or control them. The more effort is spent trying to suppress, control, or "get rid of" intrusive thoughts, the more persistent and severe they become.
Avoiding everyday activities. Important tasks at work, school, home, or in relationships may start to feel impossible. OCD takes at least an hour or more per day and interferes with daily life.
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I get this question a lot, and it makes sense to want to know why we are experiencing all this pain and suffering. It’s part of how we make sense of what is happening to us. What we know at this time is that the causes of OCD are some combination of genetics, biology, and experience. Current models of mental illness suggest that some people have a genetic predisposition for developing OCD. In other words, to develop OCD, there must be some vulnerability to OCD. However, the vulnerability alone cannot cause OCD. There also needs to be some environmental trigger, like a stressful event, that activates the vulnerability. Depending on how strong a person’s vulnerability to OCD is, the stressful event may need to be intense (for example, a traumatic event or loss) or it may be something minor or even positive (for example, lack of sleep or a new job).
Clients sometimes want to figure out exactly what it was that triggered their OCD to develop, but it is often impossible to identify. The good news is, most of the time, we don’t need to know how or why it developed in order to treat it! In treatment, we can focus on identifying what is feeding the OCD now, and starving the OCD monster.
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The answer to this is: it depends. It depends on how severe a person’s symptoms are, what is going on in a person’s life, and how long a period of time we are talking about. There are three things that can happen: Symptoms can pretty much stay the same, they can get worse, or they can (rarely) resolve without formal treatment (this is called spontaneous remission). A meta-analysis of 12 studies revealed that only 4% of participants experienced spontaneous remission across an average of about 11 weeks. In another study, researchers found that only about 14% experience full remission over a period of 6 years, meaning they no longer met criteria for OCD, and the symptoms did not return. They also identified risk factors for a chronic course, meaning their OCD symptoms stay the same or worsen over time.
Those who started with more severe symptoms and those who developed OCD at a young age were more likely to have a chronic course of symptoms. However, those who were assigned male at birth and those who were younger at the start of the study were less likely to have a chronic course. Many people experienced an episodic course, meaning that their OCD symptoms wax and wane. Stressful periods of life can increase symptoms, and calmer periods may reduce them. This can look like getting better, but the underlying problem remains. Overall, research thus far has shown that people with OCD are unlikely to see a consistent improvement in symptoms if left untreated. For those who do have spontaneous remission, this could be because of a few reasons: It could be because they reduced their compulsions on their own without going to treatment to do it, or it could be because of life changes that result in fewer stressors that trigger their symptoms. Full remission without making intentional changes is rare.
It’s also important to recognize that OCD can become VERY severe for some people. I have worked with individuals who spend upwards of 8 hours in the shower or who have not bathed or brushed their teeth for months due to their OCD symptoms. People with OCD also experience high rates of depressive disorders and suicidal thinking and behavior. The odds of experiencing suicidal thoughts are 1.9 to 10.3 times greater in people with OCD than in the general population. It’s important to seek treatment before things get to that point, but there is hope for even very severe cases of OCD.
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OCD symptoms can often wax and wane over time, depending on several factors, such as stress, the presence of triggers, and potentially even hormonal changes. People use different terms for this, such as “episodes,” “flare-ups,” or “spikes.” Any kind of stress, even with positive changes like a new job, can trigger an increase in OCD symptoms. This is similar to other mental health conditions. General levels of stress make us more psychologically vulnerable and can result in an OCD episode. The presence of an intense, unexpected trigger can also cause a flare-up. For example, if I’m afraid of harming children and I accidentally hurt my nephew when playing, I might experience a sudden increase in symptoms because my brain is telling me the lie that this event is proof that I am dangerous to children. I might then experience a lot of distress and anxiety and go into an OCD spiral of avoidance, compulsions, and an increase in intrusive thoughts. Similarly, both male and female individuals can develop or have more severe obsessive-compulsive symptoms when first becoming parents.
For those who have uteruses, there is some evidence that hormonal fluctuations may influence the onset or severity of OCD symptoms. There is a lot of evidence for new or worsened OCD symptoms in the perinatal or postpartum period for some. Perinatal OCD tends to involve a lot of harm-related intrusive thoughts about the baby, as well as contamination concerns and checking and cleaning behaviors. However, more research is still needed to determine if the cause is biological/hormonal or if it is more related to psychological concerns for their child’s well-being.
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Scrupulosity (also called “scrupulous OCD” or the nickname “scrup”) is one of many symptom themes of OCD. This theme involves religious- or moral-based obsessions and compulsions. While I treat all symptom themes and presentations of OCD, I have a special interest in scrupulosity. OCD tends to attach to the things we value most, and religion and morality are important to many people. However, you don’t have to be religious to have scrupulous OCD. Some people are religious and have religious themes, some people are not religious or no longer believe in a religion but have religious themes because they were brought up that way, and others are not religious and have secular moral OCD themes that are not related to religion.
Scrupulosity functions the same as all the other themes of OCD, and the same OCD cycle described here applies. But there are some differences. For example, people with scrupulosity tend to have lower insight. This means that it is harder for the person with OCD to realize that their obsessions or compulsions are excessive, irrational, or unreasonable. They are more likely to resist the idea that their compulsions are unnecessary or unhealthy and may be less willing to engage in exposures or response prevention, which can impact treatment. Additionally, guilt and shame are very common in scrupulous OCD and can be difficult emotions to sit with. These things can make scrupulosity more difficult to treat, but with the right clinician who you trust, treatment can be very effective.
Is ERP Right For You?
For OCD treatment, ERP is the gold standard, but it does require you to actively participate. You don’t have to be enthusiastic about facing your fears, but you do have to be willing to try. Learn more about ERP below.
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Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) is considered the gold standard treatment for OCD. Although some other treatments can be effective, ERP has the strongest evidence backing it. There is also evidence for the use of certain medications, such as SSRIs, for OCD. For people with other psychological disorders, as well as OCD and those with more severe symptoms, a combination of ERP and medication is sometimes recommended.
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About 62-65% of people show a meaningful improvement in symptoms, and about 43-50% achieve remission (minimal to no symptoms) after completing ERP. Some studies have shown an even higher rate of response from those who completed ERP treatment: 81% who showed significant improvement and 76% who achieved remission.
There are a few reasons why ERP is not effective for everyone. The most important factor is within your control! It’s putting in the hard work. People who are doing the work between sessions, challenging themselves, and taking those leaps of faith, are the people who see the most improvements. Other factors are: the quality of ERP delivery by your therapist; co-occurring conditions like active psychosis or severe depression; severity of symptoms at the start of treatment; and extreme accommodation of symptoms (helping the individual live MORE by the rules of OCD) by loved ones.
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It is very important to find a therapist who has specialized training in OCD. Therapists who know the treatment well and keep in line with the science tend to have better outcomes. Don’t be afraid to ask your clinician what their training is in OCD and ERP. Many clinicians say they treat OCD, but don’t truly have expertise in it. Without the right training and knowledge, a well-meaning therapist can make the problem worse or, at best, delay access to effective care. This is why it’s so important to find a therapist who specializes in OCD. One red flag is if a therapist lists OCD along with many other disorders or problems that they treat. It is possible to specialize in multiple problems, but if it looks like they checked off ALL the boxes for what they treat, they probably don’t actually know OCD well enough to treat it effectively.
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Therapy for OCD usually begins with a few sessions focused on getting to know you and assessing the problem. OCD looks a little different for everyone, so in order to treat it properly, your clinician needs to know about your specific symptoms and other things that might be influencing your mental health. After the initial assessment, the next sessions will focus on psychoeducation, a fancy word for teaching you about OCD and about ERP. You might start tracking some of your symptoms to get more insight into the frequency of them and what triggers them. Then, you and your clinician work together to develop a list of exposures to work on. You will begin choosing from that list and completing exposures without engaging in any compulsions or avoidance. At the same time, you will work on gradually decreasing the frequency or intensity of your compulsions outside of exposures. The treatment typically can last from 12 to 20 sessions, but this can be adjusted depending on individual needs.
You can expect your anxiety and discomfort to increase during ERP. This is an important part of the treatment! It is challenging, AND it's empowering to say “no” to OCD. As a ‘side effect’ of learning to welcome anxiety and uncertainty, our anxiety tends to decrease over time. This is because we learn that we can manage our feelings, that our feared outcome is less likely to happen than we thought, and that our distress will eventually decrease if we just do nothing. Through ERP, our goal is not to just get rid of anxiety. We need anxiety! It’s an important emotion! Instead, our goal is to change our relationship to anxiety and uncertainty.
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If someone isn’t yet willing to take the leap into fully resisting compulsions, it can be helpful to start with a delay. By delaying a compulsion for a certain amount of time, a person can start building their tolerance for anxiety. There is nothing magical about 15 minutes. Some people start with 5 minutes, others will do 30. Here’s what you do:
The urge to do a compulsion arises
Resist doing the compulsion for 15 minutes
Notice and welcome the feeling of anxiety as you resist
After 15 minutes, see if the anxiety has decreased
Over time, you might decide to delay longer or skip the compulsion altogether!
Begin Online Therapy for OCD in Wauwatosa, WI
When OCD feels overwhelming or all-consuming, it can be hard to imagine life without constant anxiety or rituals. Therapy for Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder can help you break free from obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviors, so you can regain control and live more fully.
Leap Counseling and Consultation is a Wisconsin-based solo therapy practice led by Dr. Johanna Wood, who specializes in OCD and anxiety disorders. Through personalized, evidence-based treatment, Dr. Wood helps clients develop effective tools to manage OCD and move forward with confidence. Meet one-on-one with an experienced OCD therapist in Wauwatosa.
Other Online Counseling Services at Leap Counseling in Wisconsin
Living with OCD can feel isolating, but OCD therapy offers a path toward clarity, confidence, and lasting relief. With the right support, many people learn how to respond to intrusive thoughts and anxiety in ways that allow them to live more freely and fully.
OCD treatment isn’t the only therapy service offered at my Wisconsin-based online therapy practice. As a licensed online therapist in Wisconsin and all PSYPACT states, I also provide therapy for anxiety disorders such as Panic Disorder, Agoraphobia, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Social Anxiety Disorder, and Phobias.
No matter where you’re starting, meaningful change is possible with compassionate, evidence-based care. Read my mental health blog to learn more about how therapy can help, and when you’re ready, reach out to schedule an appointment and take the next step toward feeling better.